I have been thinking a lot about family these days and what it all really means. Besides blood line what makes your family a good family? How does it all develop?  Well I am the first to say my family is loud,somewhat bitter, they hold grudges, but when in crisis we ban together. I’ve always admired that about my family but is that enough? Should we only care for each other if something is wrong? I look at some of my friends families although not perfect but I crave that unity they have. It seems like it is so much easier in your family life when everyone gets along. I…