Past loves are like old shoes you find in the back of the closet either you want to keep them or throw them away. What I mean by keep them is thinking fondly on a time when you were vulnerable and that person changed you for the better even if it ended worse. I believe that everyone we let into our personal space to love or to care about is a teacher and every moment is a class. Today as I stared out my window from the other side of the world I think of how far I have come in my dating life. It seems I have dated every…