So we’ve all read articles on relationships, the “What Will Keep Them”, “Are You Soulmates?” and the How-To’s. I know I’ve read a billion of them, but no matter what advice is giving or outcome of the survey, I still end up puzzled with the age old question : WHAT IN THE WORLD HAS KEPT THEM/US TOGETHER SO LONG?? I’ve noticed most people take the cop-out answers like “Well I’ve been with him/her forever without defining the truth of the relationship or we have kids” etc etc. What does that really have to do with the healthy LONGEVITY of your relationship? I mean, have you REALLY stepped outside of your…