Why is that when women get fat they are immediately unaccepted and unattractive?  Men can gain a million pounds and they can still demand a woman with a flat stomach along with being seen as a protector. When a man becomes heavy no one blames their self-esteem or openly criticizes. Women have a lot of pressure to stay looking, feeling, and acting a certain way. Then when we fall short here comes all the negativity.     As a woman you have so many elements that contribute to weight gain or loss. We are full of hormones and not to mention genetics that play a huge part  in our appearance…