Dear Jersey: He is Playing Too Many Games!

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I have had a thing for this guy for sometime now. Unfortunately he plays mind games, meaning he only comes around when he thinks I’m mad at him or whenever he feels threatened with my feelings dissolving for him.

His moves seem very calculated and ultimately he wants to hold all the power when it comes to the minimal/nonexistent relationship we do have. How can I move on without hurting him physically, obviously, I have some anger built from the cat and dog chase.

Anonymous,

It seems to me that he thinks you’re a board game and honey it’s time for you to put away the pieces. If you feel that you don’t have an understanding of what’s going on in the relationship go to the source.

Being direct with what you will tolerate followed by actions leaves no one confused. You can’t control other people however you can control yourself. If what this man is doing is making you feel uneasy it maybe time to move on.

Mature men are generally upfront with what they are seeking whether serious or for play. Make choice of what this man is and stick to it. Besides there are plenty of men to choose from. I would explore those options. I hope this helped.

Do you have any relationship or life questions you need advice with? Don’t hesitate to drop me an email and I will answer.

xoxo Jersey

jersey@jerseyisnaked.com until next time….